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Sunday, 25 October 2009 |
Can we be free, while the second man? Absolutely yes. I am free when I feel that I want to be just that person. A free man do what he wants. Can say: "I do not have to live with you, but it is good to live with you" - said Dr. Alfried Langle, Austrian psychotherapist, a student of Viktor Frankl, the founder of psychology. Can you learn to love? Raise it yourself?
Love happens to us. We can not order: love! We can not command: stop to love! Do not suffer when she leaves. Love has to happen properly, Rich manner. We begin to love when we see the essence of another human being, which resonates with our being.
What does resonate with the essence of another human being?
Recognize themselves in a partner. We then say: "if I know you always." Fascinates us, or difference, "you're something that I am not." Draws us to and fro and being that person. We see its uniqueness. When someone asks: "Why is it love?" Reply, "because it is so." This is what is unique. Or say, "I love him, because we have a joyful sex," she cooks so well and cares about children. " This means that the beloved person I perceive only through to meet their needs and deficiencies. We give you what we can give. Love is also so that we can meet the needs and shortcomings. Of course. But to meet the need, love is not necessary. Can satisfy the sexual needs without love. Similarly, the need for protection, care, comfort. Hunger can be satisfied by eating anything quickly. Needs met within the framework of love can be compared to beautifully prepared food. We eat, nutritious beautiful eyes, savoring the taste. If the beloved meets my needs with sensitivity and tenderness, her love inspires me, gives me strength. Love is the resonance of our essence. When this happens to me love, then do not look at his beloved as a means to an end. If you see your essence, and you see me, then your life is just as important as mine, your needs are as important as mine. Our relationship is based on balance and exchange. It is full of love. Love is a spiritual matter. In love, we see a beloved person in its highest form - we can see not only what he is at this point, but also what can happen. When I love, I believe that contributes to the development of his beloved.
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